Stick with it...practise practise practise.
I could also suggest looking into getting a decent simulator which will definitely help.
Some training skids might be a dandy idea also if you're a complete nooby.
Other than that, alot of reading, research and asking questions on forums like these would definitely help. We'll help where we can, try to stick to one thing at a time and let us sort it out. Oh and finally, it might help posting these questions in the electric heli section? If you want I'll move the thread there.